Creating a bond with kitty?

Im getting a kitten pretty soon. my ques. is how do i become close to it. ive heard a lot of people who got kittens but the kitty got attached 2 sum1 else.....i ***** take that, ive been wanting 1 for soooo long....lol, so n e body got tips on how to establish a close bond with my new kitten (feeding her wont really work cuz i *** back home from sckool at like 6 )